not tizi Berlin, Berlin No.5860 +2
I just learned that my current crush flirted heavily with an older man, married and 2 children.
Guess it's better this way, doesn't feel like it though.
how to stop caring about w*men
the russian unkel Moscow, Moskva No.5861 +7
the british house burner Oxford, England No.5862 +3
the portuguese incel Lisbon, Lisboa No.5863 +3
let me tell you a story
i had a crush on a girl from me job last year, she had that cute innocent look in her
then i learned she was in the parking lot sucking dick of a dude who had a pregnant girlfriend and he was about to be the father
so my advice is: stop having crushes, stop putting women on a pedestal, stop caring about them
women are unpredictable af, even if they behave like pure and innocent beings
theyre not rational when it comes to emotions and shit
Don't read this Pizza Fire Crisis Actor (massive cuckold spotted) Center Moriches, New York No.5864 +5
Women are human beings like you and me
And you and I are morally reprehensible pieces of genetic garbage
Both parties are vile in these scenarios
Because they are human
So there shouldn't be a reason to be surprised
Would you fuck me?
Would you read this?
not tizi Berlin, Berlin No.5869
don't really get the implication>>5863
Yeah same about the cute look, ppl call her 'plain'.
you draw the right conclusions but how do I manage to do that? It's not like I want a crush. >>5864
the problem is not her hitting on him, the problem is me being attracted to her.
the palestinian hewat Khan Yunis, Gaza No.5870 +2
ever heard of "kc leg kek human behaviourism" summerfag???
not tizi (massive cuckold spotted) Berlin, Berlin No.5871 +1
No I'm 12 years old and discovered image boards yesterday.
also no offtopic questions
the portuguese orbimod Lisbon, Lisboa No.5872
just stay away from her and do hard fulfilling hobbies to distract the mind
why am i even giving advice, im a fucking incel
not tizi Berlin, Berlin No.5873
Staying away is kinda hard because she is a co worker and I even have a seminar in two weeks where I'm @ for 4 days and she's coming too.
bonus info: last year I had basically the same problem with another co worker (female(female)) but it eventually got OK again to work with her.
That's also why I
a. don't feel too bad because I know I'll get over it and
b. hate developing crushes because they complicate everything.
I have enough distractions and hobbies to cope of course.
Maybe you're giving advice because deep down in your bitter incel heart you know others aren't to blame and they have the same problems like you and you want to help?
the portuguese spscarter Lisbon, Lisboa No.5875
the canadian mudžahid Quebec, Quebec No.5880
if it's a coworker all you need to do is be in work mode when engaging with them. What's literally the problem
classic putin!D0Ykh4wFqw Brasilia, Distrito Federal No.5882 +1
how can life be so damn macabre
the american autist Elkridge, Maryland No.5883 +2
I wouldn't suck anyone off in the parking lot tbh
not tizi Berlin, Berlin No.5888
Kinda right but also not.
First my problem is, as I mentioned in the op, that I'm most likely of no interest to her.
Second she's like in a different part of work and although I see her often I don't have work reasons to talk to her.
I guess I'll just wait for the seminar and look if I can manage to at least converse with her.
God I'm so bad with people.
Osama's Fifth Wife Center Moriches, New York No.5892 +1
the portuguese kiribati Lisbon, Lisboa No.5893 +2
well its not too late to change your mind
Vastra Goeteborg, Vastra Gotalands lan No.5899
on the bright side
when you become middle aged you can still score with young vaginiggers
the british tranny lover Oxford, England No.5900 +8
get this cope out of here
not tizi Berlin, Berlin No.6012
>she is a co worker and I even have a seminar in two weeks where I'm @ for 4 days and she's coming too.
Guess what, it's starting today.
Wish me luck, whatever that may mean in my current situation.
not tizi Dusseldorf, Nordrhein-Westfalen No.6014
First day was pretty uninteresting, we talked a bit and I managed not to be a full on autist so that's nice I guess.
the portuguese janitor Lisbon, Lisboa No.6024
but why u orbit her when shes trash
not tizi Dusseldorf, Nordrhein-Westfalen No.6028
Day two is pretty much over now. We talked much and at least I know she doesn't dislike me judging from various things. But I don't think the interest is mutual, at least I don't see it.
Thus I won't make any move whatsoever, I learn from my past mistakes lol. >>6024
I don't orbit anyone. Me being on the same seminar is purely coincidental, I've never even talked to her before.
Besides, you can't choose who you're interested in.
not tizi (massive cuckold spotted) Dusseldorf, Nordrhein-Westfalen No.6040 +1
Third day ended.
Want to know my take on this?
People like me never really learned how human interaction works. Learned only little about it with men and nothing really with women.
Since I never got any attention from female side and in the past never paid any to them I don't know the normal interaction baseline. So if she asks if I'm gonna be there and then "oh, good!" when I reply positively my autist brain thinks "maybe she does like me while in reality it's just casual niceness.
Same with her watching me sometimes.
This is so depressing, I know what's wrong but can neither fix it nor stop feeling retarded and baseless emotions.
So as I said third day ended.
I caught her looking at me two times when I was a bit away talking with different people. She also asked if I'm gonna be at dinner (see above), the seminar planned to go this evening.
I sat next to her but couldn't think of anything to say that's not work related and chose not to say anything, of course she didn't start a convo either. We talked with other neighbours at the table and sometimes just sat silently there.
Seriously I sometimes wonder why I'm not depressed. Don't get me wrong I should be pretty happy. Good stable job I like, enough money, I live on my own and I'm pretty fit but damn I have so few social connections and something just blocks me from forming any new.
thanks for reading if anyone actually did.
the portuguese tribute Lisbon, Lisboa No.6045
the "you can be happy alone" cope is just a meme
not tizi Berlin, Berlin No.6050 +1
If people actually were they wouldn't look for partners and if people actually did have to love themselves before they can love others the majority would stay single for life.
Seminar is over now and I think I should stop thinking about her. It's kinda hard as I will still see her at work and I got to like her actually more than before during the 4 days but I really doubt she feels anything for me really.
Not that I'm disappointed. I never really thought she would. But I still don't feel good about it.
not tizi (massive cuckold spotted) Berlin, Berlin No.6053
It's come so far again that I lost my appetite, this is real unsettling. I should stop self pitying ASAP but what else is there for me?
the spanish chino Madrid, Madrid, Comunidad de No.6057
>>6050> if people actually did have to love themselves before they can love others the majority would stay single for life
This is true, that "love yourself first" advice is always uttered by NPCs who got their social life and gfs handed to them on a platter when they were teens at school.
It doesn't mean anything for incel ghouls because as much as you love yourself you're still going to be an unloved ghoul.
not tizi Berlin, Berlin No.6058
What's an "incel ghoul" for you?
I classify incels as a new phenomenon of misogynists that blame anyone but themselves for their misfortunes with the opposite sex.
They claim to despise women yet all of their world view rotates about them and how to get into their pants.
I don't want to offend any /bro/s but they seem pretty dense and annoying to me, spouting their phrases like "heightlet" and such.
I identify as sad and peaceful virgin and accept my own shortcomings are to blame.It doesn't help me but at least others don't perceive me as a hateful retard.
the spanish 4channer Madrid, Madrid, Comunidad de No.6059
Just an overly dramatic way of saying virgin for life, the kind of guy who has a normal face, looks average and isn't fat or underweight, sometimes they're evn fit, but give off virgin waves that women catch so they avoid them.